Myth#3 “Her Marriage Is Perfect.”

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We woman are always tempted to fantasise about a “perfect” world. We fantasise that someone else’s marriage is perfect and if only like hers, our lives would be perfect too. But that’s a myth. What we see is only the good part. Marriage that looks all perfect also has a darker side.

What we see is…..

 Her husband compliments her in public. He has a great job, provides with all comfortable lifestyle. They have beautiful home in a gated neighbourhood, drive new Lexus, have a beautiful baby boy. 

But what we dont see is …

What her husband does when he is stressed, he gets angry.  He keeps a mental list of all things she does wrong in his eyes. We don’t see behind closed doors, he calls her stupid, incompetent. He’d punch holes in walls that she carefully covers with framed prints. We don’t see his rages.

We know nothing that..

She gets angry on herself. This is her second marriage, and she told herself that she would never go through another divorce. She only wishes she was as naive about her problems as everyone else seems to be.

There are no perfect marriages because there are no perfect people. And when we compare with others, they are more than few problems.

  1. Fantasies are selective. Envy focuses on only good part of person’s life:  car, marriage, career, clothes, riches, children, home….
  2. Fantasies thrive on miss information. When we think someones’s life is perfect, we never know the serious hidden issues.
  3. Fantasies of perfection prevent us from realistically working on our own problems and make emotional progress.
  4. We do each other a terrible disservice by believing, feeding, envying and perpetuating the lie of a perfect life.

Lets stop believing lie that some else marriage is perfect. Instead lets seek Gods’ vision to see things like He does. A successful marriage requires a vision greater than itself, a vision that is beyond earthly limitations and confusions.

 

Inspired from woman’s bible- True Identity. 

Sharing the word for all woman across the globe to help  become who you are in Christ. 

 

 

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Poem from Kari Jobe’s Song “Forever”

If there are words for Him then I don’t have them.

See my brain has not yet reached the point where it could form a thought that could adequately describe the greatness of my God.

And my lungs have not yet developed the ability to release a breath with enough agility to breathe out the greatness of His Love.

And my voice, see my voice is so inhibited , restrained by human limits that it’s hard to even sing the praise up, you see, if there are words for Him, then I don’t have them.

My God, His Grace is remarkable, mercies are innumerable, strength is impenetrable, He is honorable, accountable, favorable.

He’s unsearchable yet knowable, indefinable, yet approachable, indescribable, yet personal

He is beyond comprehension, further than imagination, constant through generations, King of every nation, but if there are words for Him, then I don’t have them

You see my words are few to try and capture the ONE TRUE GOD, using my vocabulary will never do, but I use words as an expression, an expression of worship to a Savior, a Savior who is both worthy and deserving of my praise, so I use words.

My heart extols the Lord, blesses His Name forever. He has won my heart, captured my mind, and has bound them both together. He has defeated me in my rebellion, conquered me in my sin, He has welcomed me into His presence, completely invited me in. He has made Himself the object of my sight, flooding me with mercies in the morning, drowning me with Grace in the night, but if there are words for Him, then I don’t have them.

But what I do have is GOOD NEWS, for my God knew that manmade words would never do, for words are just tools that we use to point to the truth.

So He sent His Son Jesus Christ as THE WORD, LIVING PROOF, He is THE IMAGE OF THE INVISIBLE GOD, THE FIRST BORN OF ALL CREATION, FOR BY HIM ALL THINGS WERE CREATED, GIVING NOTHINGNESS, FORMATION.

AND BY HIS WORD HE SUSTAINS IN THE POWER OF HIS NAME. FOR HE IS BEFORE ALL THINGS AND ABOVE ALL THINGS HE REIGNS. HOLY IS HIS NAME!

SO PRAISE HIM FOR HIS LIFE! THE WAY HE PERSERVERED IN STRIFE. THE HUMBLE SON OF GOD BECOMING THE PERFECT SACRIFICE.

PRAISE HIM FOR HIS DEATH! THAT HE WILLINGLY STOOD IN OUR PLACE THAT HE LOVINGLY ENDURED THE GRAVE THAT HE BATTLED OUR ENEMY, AND ON THE THIRD DAY ROSE IN VICTORY.

HE IS EVEYTHING THAT WAS PROMISED.

PRAISE HIM AS THE RISEN KING.

LIFT YOUR VOICE AND SING, FOR ONE DAY HE WILL RETURN FOR US, AND WE WILL FINALLY BE UNITED WITH OUR SAVIOR FOR ENTERNITY! ETERNITY!

SO IT IS NOT JUST WORDS THAT I PROCLAIM, FOR MY WORDS POINT TO THE WORD, AND THE WORD HAS A NAME, HOPE HAS A NAME, JOY HAS A NAME, PEACE HAS A NAME, LOVE HAS A NAME, AND THAT NAME IS JESUS CHRIST!

Blogging by email – Whatevermail.com

Now posting or sharing information on blog is much easier with whatevermail.com. Whether you are passionate about writing, information seeking, or sharing information like pictures and videos, or sometimes you want to simply share email forwards, in such cases Whatevermail is the best platform for you. Whateveremail is all about simply posting content by email.

As the name suggests,  Whatevermail is an interactive blog helping users to publish anything and everything easily by email.

You can

  • write and publish your own articles
  • write your articles on any subject and generate traffic to your website
  • critique the latest movies you watch
  • share photos and vidoes
  • ask questions and find answers
  • share your any experiences
  • simply share forward emails

You can do all of this easily from an email without having trouble managing and posting content online.

But why post by email?

Users are often struggled to remember too many usernames and passwords to manage various online accounts. With What Ever Mail Blog, you don’t need to Login each time to post and manage content on the blog.

Write your article and simply post by sending an email from the registered email address to whateveryoupost@gmail.com

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Things to remember before you start posting

  1. To share information by email, you need to register with whatevermail.com and post content from the same email address you register with.
  2. Format and beautify your content within tthe compose box of your email itself.
  3. Your Username and Password are needed only when you want to edit, manage and delete your content.

Register yourself for free and start sharing content!

5 Best tools to shorten URLs

In our everyday life, we often share information via email or many social networking sites like Google+, Twitter, Facebook etc., Posting or sharing long ugly URLs is painful and most of the times the long URLs are misread and misunderstood. Sometimes you are also limited to certain number of characters while sharing information, such as Twitter. To tackle this, you need tools that shorten URL’s. These tools simply shorten the regular long URL to a compressed format. The new short URL will redirect the user to the regular long URL.
There are several free URL shortener services available over the web. I am going to list the 5 best tools to shorten URLs.

  1. TinyURL.com

    is one the most popular free URL shortener services. This tool has a very simple tool-bar with a preview feature. Make sure you enable cookies on your web browser to enable Preview feature. It also offers a bookmarklet for simple browser use.
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  2. Bit.ly

    is another popular free tool that allows you to customize short URLs . This tool is most reliable and simpler tool with additional feature of tracking how many people are clicking the link.
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  3. goo.gl

    is Google’s free URL shortener tool. This tool has an additional feature of providing you with the data of number of times people clicked the link and history of shortened links along with date, time and analytics.
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  4. ow.ly

    is Hootsuite’s built in URL shortenertool which is accessible either on Hoottsuite dashboard or on the ow.ly website. This tools has additional features that allows you to upload images, track number of clicks on link and also share the shortened link to social networking sites.
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  5. lillink.com

    is the one of best free tools I have come across over web with a very simple user- interface. You just have to paste the long URL and hit Shorten. Shortened URL is immediately copied and you can share the link via email or to social networking sites.  It doesn’t have tracking feature like the rest tools but it is just one cute tool with beautiful background slider that displays random images.
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Classic Rare Snaps Shots

These are amazing photos.

Frank Sinatra and Grace Kelly

The Beatles and Mohammad Ali,

Martin Luther King Jr. And Marlon Brando

Marilyn Monroe Meets Queen Elizabeth II


Mother Teresa and Princess Diana

Henry Ford, Thomas Edison, Warren G.

Steve Jobs and Bill Gates

Bill Clinton meeting John F.Kennedy White House in 1963

James Dean and Elizabeth Taylor

Elvis Presley and Tom Jones

Walt Disney and Shirley Temple

Mahatma Gandhi & Charlie Chaplin